Thankful for the Variety Club
Last night we had the pleasure of attending their annual Special Children’s Christmas Party at the Newcastle Entertainment Centre. It is an annual event where local businesses and organisations come together to put on a night of fun for kids with special needs and their families.
We went for the very first time last year – Gilbert had been invited in previous years but we didn’t feel he would have be able to cope with the event prior to then. We met up with some families we knew and he ended up having a great time.
This year was no different. The generosity that people display to make this event possible is simply mind boggling. There were staff on hand from Bunnings to help the kids do christmas craft – this year kids could choose to decorate either a Santa wooden mask or a reindeer one. My kids decided on the reindeer design and had a ball using coloured textas to decorate them.
Gilbert carefully outlined his design and then took a lot of care to fill it in – I was amused to note that there is not a mouth or nose or eyes to be seen! Matilda had two attempts as she realised that she coloured in the wrong side the first time so she returned later on and went for a rainbow theme. Aren’t they cute?
After the fun of craft we moved onto face painting. Matilda asked to have her face painted like a reindeer – she ended up with brown antlers painted on forehead, a red nose and black markings on her cheeks – she loved it! Gilbert asked to have his face painted like one of Ben 10’s aliens – his face was green with black circles around his eyes.
It was really cute until he saw his reflection in the mirror and then demanded we wash it off right away. We managed to talk him into keeping it on so he remained part of Ben 10’s alien force for the rest of the night!
After a quick walk around to see what else was on offer we decided to have some hotdogs, followed by a drink and then finished up with ice cream (my kids only like the best – they both walked away with Magnums!)
By this stage we had met up with some other families so we took refuge at the back of the centre and let the kids run wild. It is very loud at these events which is obviously hard for a lot of families with ASD.
While the boys were able to run out some of their energy and anxiety, for some, the rough play was a bit too much so there was a fair bit of parental intervention to help stave off full-on fights and the resultant meltdowns.
Gilbert loves rough play and deep pressure so the rough play actually settled him down (weird, I know). However, the nature of the play was seriously affecting Matilda who went into a meltdown of her own worrying that her brother would get hurt.
I had to remove her from the play and distract her by taking her to the stage to have a dance with some other friends. Dancing and singing calms her down so she ended up settling down and really enjoyed herself.
Her enjoyment was complete when Super Hubert came onto the stage. For those of you not familiar with Super Hubert, he is a Newcastle icon, a super hero who happens to be a magician, who charms the kids with silly tricks and funny noises.
I somehow ended up being in a mosh pit of kids while trying to look after her – she had moved to the front of the crowd and had to be restrained from climbing through the barricade…let’s just say I’m not looking forward to her teenage years!!!
The only way I could pry her from the performance was to let her know that her group had been called and she was due to go to the toy room. She was outta there like a flash! This is the part of the night the kids look forward to – the time when they line up to get presents and then have a photo with Santa.
Matilda was especially excited – she had never had an invitation of her own before so had not been given presents in the past. This year she was presented with a blue stuffed racoon, a silk screening set and a cord draw set. Her largesse helped ease the pain when we realised the line up to see Santa was too long so we would have to make do with a quick wave instead.
Gilbert was similarly blessed. He chose a yellow stuffed racoon (for Delilah, he was a member of the Ben 10 alien force, remember?) and received a ball shoot activity game and a pirate building block set. After a fun night with some of his friends from school it was the icing on the cake for him – he was so well behaved and happy, it was great to see!
It was a fantastic night and we are so grateful for all those businesses and organisations who played a role in making it happen. For these kids, and their families, having a night just for them is priceless. So, thank you so much for making it such a memorable evening – my kids certainly won’t forget it in a hurry!
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